Let's try for a minute to take the religious conservatives at their word and define marriage as the Bible does. Shall we look to Abraham, the great patriarch, who slept with his servant when he discovered his beloved wife Sarah was infertile? Or to Jacob, who fathered children with four different women (two sisters and their servants)? Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon and the kings of Judah and Israel—all these fathers and heroes were polygamists. The New Testament model of marriage is hardly better. Jesus himself was single and preached an indifference to earthly attachments—especially family. The apostle Paul (also single) regarded marriage as an act of last resort for those unable to contain their animal lust. "It is better to marry than to burn with passion," says the apostle, in one of the most lukewarm endorsements of a treasured institution ever uttered. Would any contemporary heterosexual married couple—who likely woke up on their wedding day harboring some optimistic and newfangled ideas about gender equality and romantic love—turn to the Bible as a how-to script?
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This article's not so great. It's based on a literalist interpretation of scripture, not an essentialist one. Tradition is what leads folks to oppose homosexuality, not whether David might have slept with a man.
The fact that 62 percent in Newsweek's companion poll believed marriage to have a religious component speaks to the essentialism of which I note.
When people of faith give this up, there won't be any hard work left for people to respect. Folks can do as they please, in any area of culture, and look for a controversy in the Bible to say, "see, the book of such and such supports our position..."
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